Instead of all this I should be on a plane to Texas
The perfect is the enemy of the good

Silver linings

I took the baby out tonight (out! oh no!) to see friends and eat giant chocolate parfaits from Whole Foods. Recommend. It didn't QUITE make up for missing dinner with my fellow Blathering organizers, but I hadn't seen THESE friends in forever either and it was nice to catch up. It also helps that they are only interested in my blawg and internet friends to the extent that they have to listen politely when I talk about it. 

AND! Molly went to bed without her pacifier for the first time tonight, and Phillip and I had nothing to do with it. So the whole pacifier thing... YES we are WELL AWARE that Three Plus is too old, it could mess up her teeth, blah blah blah. She only gets it when she sleeps and it generally falls out of her mouth, so I've never been worried about it. Also, I'm incredibly lazy and the thought of taking it away just made me weep with exhaustion. 

Before Emma was born we talked up The Passo Fairy a LOT. This is what we did with Jack - when he turned three we boxed up the pacifiers and told them the Passo Fairy would take them away and leave him a present. That went over pretty well and he never had a problem. But Molly seems to be as attached to her pacifier as Jack is to his teddy bear (which is funny, because I would have hacked off an arm to get Molly to take a pacifier when she was an infant). Then Emma arrived and taking the pacifier away just seemed like a rotten idea. Transitioning to big sisterhood AND no passo? 

But for some reason Molly brought it up on her own today. She wants to give all the pacifiers to Emma. She wanted to give HER pacifier to Emma. And I said fine! Except that meant she wouldn't get one for her nap or at bedtime. And Molly said fine! And I thought Yeah Right. 

It didn't work at naptime. Well, it might have, if I'd been stricter or had more energy, but honestly, these big kids are making me a little nuts and I am all about whatever makes the whining stop fastest. But then I went out to see friends and when I got home Phillip looked at me incredulously and said, "Molly! Gave up! Her passo!" 

We'll see how it goes. She's not asleep YET. And sometimes she'll wake up in the night asking for it. And tomorrow we're driving to the pumpkin patch near my parents and she almost always wants her pacifier when we're driving home at night. WE SHALL SEE. 

Emma continues to be a doll baby. I mean, she's kinda stinky and yesterday I gave up somewhere around the two dozenth wipe and finally stuck the kid under the bathtub faucet to clean her off. But she's generally quiet and goodnatured and eats and doesn't bug me much. And she was amenable to her older brother and sister treating her like one of the dolls earlier today. They got to play house with a REAL baby and when I finally snatched her away Jack said, "Mommy, that was SO MUCH FUN!" Hee!

She's grunting and tooting up a storm over here, so I better go see what that's about. I hope you have a great weekend - especially if you're at the Blathering. I'm so excited for you first timers. Super bummed I won't get to meet you, but so excited to read your blogs on Monday!

Comments

Elsha

We had a dentist friend tell us that any damage done to teeth placement by a pacifier is done by like 6 months. Soooo, really didn't make me think I needed to worry too much. Also, I never sucked my thumb or used a paci and my teeth were totally screwed up, but my husband sucked his thumb for YEARS and has perfectly straight teeth. So again, not going to worry about it.

And yes, it's the crack of dawn, but I'm about to leave for the airport for Austin! So sad you aren't going to be there :(

HereWeGoAJen

That is so sweet that Molly wanted to give her pacifiers to Emma. I hope it sticks. :) Also, (if you need my permission, and you don't) I would never fuss about a pacifier for MONTHS AND MONTHS after there is a new baby. Path of least resistance and all.

Redbecca

grunting tooting and smelly and gassy makes me think food intolerance. have you talked to her doc about that? my nephew eventually had bloody messes and my SIL had to cut out all kinds of foods till they figured out it was a corn allergy (including corn syrup, which HELLO almost every commercial food ever made!).
And yay for giving up the Passo! our kiddo finally this week stopped asking to carry his finger puppets in and around school all day! Love these milestones!

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